Monday, May 20, 2013

Happy 3rd Birthday, Alice!

We celebrated Alice's birthday this weekend with visits from both sets of grandparents. My parents came to visit on Friday and left late on Sunday, and Jon's parents arrived on Sunday afternoon just in time to let us have cake and presents during the overlap.

I worked on decorating Alice's birthday cake before we started the celebrating.


My trusty helper was hanging around, ready lick the spatula...


I kept up my tradition and made Alice another birthday dress, finishing it just in the nick of time on Saturday night. When I was shopping for Easter dress supplies, I came across this awesome Liberty of London fabric featuring none other than Alice's very favorite - Hello Kitty. I bought enough to make another Geranium dress but I'm glad to see that there's still some available (and on sale!). It's a lovely floral print featuring subtle Hello Kitties playing various musical instruments. Totally adorable. I love that it doesn't scream "Hello Kitty," you can hardly tell unless you look closely. Alice LOVES it. When we went outside to take some pictures, Alice grabbed her toy telescope and wouldn't drop it for the photos. So, you know.





We went out for Alice's favorite food for lunch but our favorite Chinese restaurant is closed on Sunday so we went to another, slightly fancier joint in town.

Before we got everything underway, we had a quick chat with my brother who had sent down a gift for Alice since he couldn't make it down. 
He told her to go out and look on the front porch...
Where she found a tiny broom and dust pan just her size. Now she can do her very own sweeping without bashing up the walls!

And then she dug in to the rest of her presents. She got a few new books including some of my childhood favorites, which I can't wait to read with her.

She was especially enthusiastic unwrapping this one, "It's a new Disney movie!" 

 Aristocats! We had been watching Aristocats on Netflix but we've canceled our subscription for now, and it's really hard to explain to a three-year-old why some of our movies are "on the computer" and some of them are not...
My parents recently stayed at Safari West, a wildlife preserve and breeding zoo, and loved all the giraffes they saw. Naturally, they thought of us, and got this fun puppet for Alice.
And then it was time for cake! Since all the best chocolate cake recipes call for buttermilk, or at least milk, I made a chocolate mayo cake so I could enjoy it without giving Ivy the dairy colic. I topped it with this delicious buttercream and then used this technique I saw on Pinterest to put a sweet Hello Kitty on top.
Pink and chocolate, just like her little dress.
The decorating technique worked pretty well but I think it would work even better if you were coloring the entire image with frosting, like the tutorial. Then it would be a solid chunk of frosting that would flip right over onto your cake. I ended up piping back over the design again, which worked well too, except my chocolate buttercream was a bit too thick and then a bit too hot after I nuked it to soften it up. But I got it working well enough to write out her name just in time to eat it! 
She was much more excited to blow out her candles this year but she still wanted a little help to reach the candles.
And then she blew them all out! I was so proud!
And then we all enjoyed a slice while we watched Alice eat a hole through the middle of her cake, eat all the frosting, and then dig through the layers again. The mayo cake was so delicious, without any hint of mayo tang, and the frosting was perfectly fluffy and not too sweet. Definitely a combo that I'll keep handy in my recipe box!


 After cake, Alice broke out all her new toys, including the Play-Doh Fun Factory. She wanted to try to do everything all at the same time but we finally convinced her to put the play-doh away so we could watch Aristocats and snuggle.
I think she had a great time celebrating and we all had so much fun making her day feel extra special.

Happy Birthday to our very first big girl baby girl! We love you so much and I couldn't imagine life without your little voice and your laugh and your imagination and your sweet, sweet little face. 
one birthday suit, and three years of mama-made birthday dresses.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Disneyland Redux

Because we're gluttons for punishment and clearly insane, we decided to squeeze in another trip to Disneyland before I went back to work to try and redeem our previous visit. Except this time, we decided not to tell Alice we were going. We discussed in code in the days leading up to the trip and on the morning of, told her we were going to drive for a little while to play at a park. She told us that we were going to play at "Marie's park."

This is how she dressed Marie for the outing she thought we were going to have:
Marie is wearing animal print socks "baby booties" and a bunny ears headband.
I tried to film the moment of realization and got out the camera when we pulled in to the parking structure. She observed that we were in a parking structure and were going to find a place to park. Then she spied Mickey on the parking structure signs. But she didn't figure it out. 

When we got to the tram plaza at the bottom of the escalator, Alice said "This looks like Disneyland!" But when we asked if she knew where we were, she still said "the park. Marie's park." So we took off walking.

She saw the monorail, still no recognition. Park entry plaza, nothing. We walked through the turnstiles and saw the Mickey flowers and train station and still no clue. Please keep in mind we were there just a little over a week ago. I was starting to question her intelligence...

She seriously couldn't figure it out until we were staring at the castle. I don't know if she was just confused because we lied to her misdirected her, or if she just accepts that any park can look like Disneyland. Anyway, she finally figured it out but I think that the surprise and the inability to anticipate the situation left her a bit out of sorts. She was excited but it was not the giddy reaction we were expecting. 

We were aiming to let her do all the things we weren't able to fit in last time, all the things she'd been talking about when making her plans. So we headed straight to the castle.

We were just in time to catch the Disneyland band and conductor Mickey. Alice wasn't super impressed, for some reason.
Alice had been talking about meeting the princesses, so we popped over to the new Princess Fair. No sooner did we get in line than Alice had a meltdown about needing a snack, so we jumped out of line,  grabbed a garlic cheese bagel twist and a chocolate pastry twist at the snack cart right outside, and hopped back in line with our snacks. The line was short so we had to chow down our treats pretty fast and then clean all the seeds and chocolate out of our teeth before taking photos with the royals. And as soon as we got inside, Alice decided she didn't want to meet princesses after all and tried to go back out the way we came in. So I tried to usher her forward and told her that Ivy was going to meet princesses, whether Alice wanted to or not. Luckily, the princesses are very gracious and skilled at greeting less-than-enthusiastic kids and were all able to win Alice over since they were all wearing matching hair accessories.
Ivy was pretty impressed.
Ivy and Ariel were totally wearing coordinating outfits.
I liked the new Princess Fair area and flow, but I thought the actual interior was absolutely horrible for photos. The walls and carpet are super busy, they don't flatter any of the costumes and I imagine that most or all of the guests get swallowed up instead of standing out. The decor is also really dark and the rooms are dramatically dimly lit from above, which casts terrible shadows on everyone's faces and really draws one's attention to the shiny, synthetic wigs princess hair. I hate the look of in-camera flash, so I used my highest ISO and widest aperture and was only just barely able to get non-blurry images with a decent exposure. I can only imagine how terrible everyone looks in point-and-shoot photos. 

I know Disney does the Photopass thing now, where their photographers will take photos for you at the best spots all day and you can then go online and buy downloads of your favorites. I haven't looked at our Photopass shots yet (I've never really been that impressed with the shots they get), but maybe their photographers get better looking shots in there. Still, though, I would have hoped that a brand new area intended mainly for parents to get great shots of their kids meeting princesses would have been designed with lighting that would lend itself to a wide range of camera and photographer capabilities. You've been warned.

Around lunch time, we headed over to California Adventure to have lunch (and adult beverages) at the Cozy Cones Motel, which Alice just totally loves for some reason. She's really into road cones, go figure. Then she and Jon took another spin on Luigi's Flying Tires before we headed over to Mickey's Fun Wheel. Alice wanted to ride in the swinging buckets because they look more fun from the ground and though we thought it was probably going to be more exciting than she bargained for, we wanted to let her experience something that she was so jazzed about. Indeed, it was a little more exciting than she was probably cool with but she did a great job of letting me comfort her and talk her through it. She was only moderately terrified at the biggest swinging sections, around the 4pm and 8pm positions on the wheel. We shared a bucket with another couple and I felt a little bad sabotaging their romantic ride with my screaming child, even if she was young enough to be his grand-daughter... 

And then we grooved our way over to King Triton's Carousel to recover from all that excitement.


On our way back to Disneyland, we stopped by our brick and showed Alice our names set in stone at her very favorite place. She doesn't look super excited in this picture, but she keeps bringing it up so I think it actually made a bit of an impression.
At her request, we headed to Fantasyland for her first spin in the teacups. I was worried that the spinning would be too much for her little head but luckily, Jon is a masterful teacup spinner and can actually keep the teacup static in the same position so that it only moves in the bigger circles around the tea party. He thoughtfully kept it oriented toward the photographer! It was hard to see Alice's little face over the side of the teacup but she really enjoyed herself.
I snuck a few shots of Alice playing with some sticks and leaves while Jon tended to Ivy.
And then we switched kids and I got a nice shot of daddy and daughter just before I tended to Ivy.
And I couldn't resist playing paparazzi before Ivy and I found a comfy seat.
And then we took a ride on the Casey Jr. Circus Train, one of Alice's very favorites. We were first in line but she waffled when it was time to choose our train car and skipped over the pink open air car right behind the organ car and headed for the monkey cage, her old stand by. But then she freaked out and wouldn't actually get in so we talked her into the blue open air car instead. And then Ivy and I got kicked out because only three people are allowed in one row - even though Ivy was strapped to my chest, apparently, they count heartbeats rather than silhouettes. So Ivy and I joined a new friend in the caboose. And then we were off. Whew.
We rode Pirates and Alice was pretty apprehensive until she fell asleep in Jon's lap right after the drops. Ivy was sleeping in the Ergo carrier until she woke up and wanted to eat, so I did something I've never done before and nursed her right there in the relative peace and privacy of our pirate ship. We rode Haunted Mansion to assure her that Jack Skellington had packed up his holiday decorations until next Fall, and then she and Jon rode through the Hundred Acre Wood while I kept Ivy asleep. After a nutritious dinner of corndogs followed by ice cream, we settled in for Alice's very favorite entertainment, the parade. Ivy was awake and she stood up to watch the entire thing. I LOVED watching my two girls with their eyes glued to the floats, smiling their very biggest smiles.
 
After the parade, I fed Ivy on a peaceful bench while Jon and Alice ran around the street and through the shops. By the time Ivy was done and they ran back to me, Minnie had made her way to the flagpole and was busy meeting all her friends right behind me, so they jumped in line to say hello. I noticed that there wasn't a line at the popcorn wagon, so Ivy and I headed over to my old post to get a special treat and souvenir for Alice. She'd been so much more delightful on this trip and we'd all had such a more enjoyable time, I was much more inclined to spend some extra dollars on something fun. So after this happened:
I let her stuff herself with popcorn from the coolest souvenir bucket there ever was, until we got to the car. 

Ivy was pretty cranky (I think she had a gas bubble) and cried for about 10 minutes once we hit the road but that didn't faze Alice at all and she was out like a trout. They both slept the whole way home but Ivy woke up before I could get a shot of both of them asleep in their seats.
Alice was lucky that I didn't eat all her popcorn on the way home, so I let her have the leftovers for breakfast the next morning - as part of a balanced breakfast, of course. 
Hilariously, Marie has been having popcorn for breakfast (and every other meal) every day since then...
I think the cooler weather helped all of us keep our cool, even when Alice was being difficult. There were a few tense moments but all in all, it was the best day at the park we've had in a string of frustrating or difficult trips (though Christmas was pretty good?). We probably haven't had such a fun, easy day there since we went to celebrate her 2nd birthday. I'm glad we were able to have fun observing her 3rd birthday, since we probably won't venture back to Disneyland until the weather cools off again in like, early December...  Fortunately, Alice constantly wants to pretend to go to Disneyland or talk about past and future trips, so we have a chance to relive all our previous trips and get excited for all our future trips every. single. day. And because we are gluttons for punishment, and clearly insane, we are already looking forward to the next chance to torture ourselves at the happiest place on earth.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

4 Months!

whoa, what??
I know, it's crazy! Our little Ivy Bug is 4 months old!

She used all her calories to grow tall over the last two months; at 26 inches, she's now around the 96th percentile for height. Her weight leveled off and she only gained about a pound. At 14 pounds, 8 ounces, she's in the 57th percentile or the 70th percentile, depending on whether you ask the World Health Organization or the CDC. At the same age, Alice was 1 centimeter, or almost half an inch taller, and just a bit lighter at 13 pounds, 14 ounces.
She is such a sweet, happy, good-natured baby and is so easy-going. She's on a good schedule but is usually really flexible about waiting a few minutes before we can do something for her. 

She's outgrowing her swaddles, both in size and strength to bust though the Velcro. We've started using the Miracle blanket which I hated with Alice but am loving for Ivy except that the leg area isn't well secured so she always manages to kick one leg free.

In the past few weeks, she's gotten so great at falling asleep on her own. She no longer needs any rocking or bouncing before sleeping, and usually prefers that you just put her down. So we just wrap her up and lay her in bed and she'll lay quietly until she falls asleep or just turns her head to the side and closes her eyes. Sometimes she needs some help to retrieve an escaped pacifier, but there is never any protesting unless she needs a meal or diaper change. It's magnificent.

Over the last week or so, we've been transitioning from the hammock to the crib for overnight sleep and both girls are doing great. Sometimes they each take a bit longer to fall asleep than they might on their own but they're both learning to sleep through the other's noises and stay/fall back asleep all night long. Dare I say that it seems like they both already enjoy their new roommate and sleeping arrangements?

We're still working on keeping Ivy asleep through the 4-6am hour. Most days she just wants to get up at 4am with Jon and screech and squeal and smile at him until she falls asleep again. So he usually has 2-3 super helpful and noisy pre-dawn office assistants. 


She's still practicing rolling over but she's getting pretty good in both directions. She just needs to figure out how to get her arm out from underneath her body once she's made it onto her tummy. She's still strengthening all the muscles to keep head & shoulders off the ground on tummy time. She loves to have help to stand but I definitely want to make sure she crawls before she walks!

She brings her hands together and to her mouth and is really great at manipulating toys (and our fingers) so she can chomp on them. Jon fed her a bottle the other day and she did a great job holding it, taking it it out of her mouth and putting it back in. She practically fed herself and she hasn't even started regular bottle feeding yet.
In these photos, Ivy is laying on a beautiful blanket that I won in a giveaway about a month ago. Before Lauren from A Lovely Lark welcomed her sweet second daughter, she and the American Blanket Company let one lucky reader choose a baby blanket from their hand-stitched collection. I was so excited to win (I never win anything!) and was thrilled to find the package waiting for me when we got back from our Easter trip. I chose the Gardenia blanket in monotone cotton (white with white stitching) and I love it. We have lots of soft blankets at our house but this thick and cushy one quickly became our favorite. The company guarantees that the fabric will never shed or pill, or they will replace it for free. Plus, I love that they are made in the U.S. If you need a beautiful baby gift that is sure to last and be well-loved, I definitely recommend one of the elegant options from this company!
We're so glad that Ivy's settled into more predictable routine and that she's become so easy-going and flexible. Jon's going to need all the help she and Alice can give him since he'll become a one-man show when I go back to work next week.
Because despite the adorable exterior, we think this one could give us a pretty hard time, if she wanted to!!
do NOT mess with this face.